M. Strategy 1: 瞞天過海 * part 3
Fool someone and Cross the Sea * part 3
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曹操欺騙叔父與父親
曹操年幼時,喜好游獵,喜歡歌舞;腦子想法有權謀,生活事件多機巧應變。曹操的叔父,看見曹操一直游蕩、不務正業,就很生氣。因此告訴曹嵩。曹嵩知道了以後,就罵曹操。曹操不想被罵,忽然想出一個辦法:遠遠的看見叔父走過來,就假裝暈倒在地上,作出好像中風的樣子。叔父嚇到了,就告訴曹嵩:曹操暈倒了,曹嵩很緊急的察看,結果曹操根本沒事。從此以後,父親曹嵩就只相信曹操,不相信叔父。因為這樣,曹操就可以隨便亂玩。
When Cao Cao was young, he loved hunting and dancing; he was cunning and resourceful, and adept at handling life's challenges. Cao Cao's uncle, seeing him constantly wandering and neglecting his duties, became angry and told Cao Song. Cao Song, upon learning this, scolded Cao Cao. Not wanting to be scolded, Cao Cao devised a plan: seeing his uncle approaching from afar, he pretended to faint, acting as if he had suffered a stroke. His uncle, frightened, told Cao Song that Cao Cao had fainted. Cao Song rushed to check on him, only to find Cao Cao was perfectly fine. From then on, his father, Cao Song, only trusted Cao Cao and not his uncle. Because of this, Cao Cao could act recklessly.
1.曹操的叔父,為什麼會不被信任?
2.曹嵩為什麼會被蒙在鼓裡?
3.曹操的叔父與曹嵩,為什麼混亂?
4.曹嵩為什麼,不能識破這個騙局?
5.職場如果遇到曹操,妳/你,身份類似於曹操的叔父,會怎麼做?
6.職場如果遇到曹操,妳/你,身份類似於曹嵩,會怎麼做?
7.職場如果遇到曹操,妳/你,身份類似於家族長輩,會怎麼做?
8.職場如果遇到曹操,妳/你,身份類似於鄰居,會怎麼做?
1. Why was Cao Cao's uncle not trusted?
2. Why was Cao Song kept in the dark?
3. Why was there confusion between Cao Cao's uncle and Cao Song?
4. Why couldn't Cao Song see through the deception?
5. If you encountered Cao Cao in the workplace, and your position was similar to Cao Cao's uncle, what would you do?
6. If you encountered Cao Cao in the workplace, and your position was similar to Cao Song, what would you do?
7. If you encountered Cao Cao in the workplace, and your position was similar to a family elder, what would you do?
8. If you encountered Cao Cao in the workplace, and your position was similar to a neighbor, what would you do?
1.曹操的叔父,為什麼會不被信任?
因為被曹操算計,因為曹操騙人,因為曹操他欺騙曹操之父,說曹操昏倒了。
因為曹操裝中風。
因為是叔父和曹嵩說曹操中風的。
因為曹操在他爸面前假中風,但沒事,但他叔父跟他爸說他中風了。
曹操父親覺得,曹操叔父在騙。曹操根本沒暈倒。曹嵩以為叔父騙他。
因為曹操之父:曹嵩,覺得他在說謊。曹嵩覺得曹操的叔父騙了他。曹爸爸覺得被騙了。
因為把曹操中風的假訊息講出去,被曹嵩誤以為曹操的叔父在騙人。
因為他說的跟結果不一樣。
曹操的叔父與曹嵩看到的,實際情形不同。
Because he has fallen into Cao Cao"s trick.
2.曹嵩為什麼會被蒙在鼓裡?
因為曹嵩很緊張,沒時間想太多。
因為他看到的景象,是曹操刻意安排給他看到的。他不知道自己被騙。因為他支持他兒子
沒有人告訴他事實。
曹操沒有如實說:他是裝的。曹嵩不去查證真相。
因為曹操雙面人。因為曹操機智多謀。
因為曹嵩不知道曹操是裝的、曹嵩不知道事情經過、曹嵩沒有仔細求證: 曹操的情況與曹操的叔父形容的不同、曹嵩沒看見現實、曹嵩不了解總情況、曹嵩不信任叔父、曹嵩不關心、因為他信任他兒子、他被曹操騙了、沒仔細觀察、因為被曹操騙了、曹操用裝的、因為他親眼看到曹操中風。
Because Cao Cao doesn’t want to let Cao song know.
3.曹操的叔父與曹嵩,為什麼混亂?
遠因: 因為曹操一直遊蕩、不顧正業。
近因: 因為兩人看到不一樣,因為曹操假裝暈倒,曹操欺騙他們
因為曹嵩看到曹操刻意安排給他看到的景象,就誤以為曹操的叔父,不值得信任。曹操的情況與曹操叔父形容的樣子,不同,雙方看見的都不相同。因為曹操假中風。曹嵩不信任曹操的叔父,雙方都被對方誤會。因為曹操假裝中風,讓曹嵩與叔父都很擔心。因為父親到現場時曹操就起身了。
關鍵: 曹操的叔父與曹嵩,受曹操算計、中曹操的計謀、被騙,情況很緊急;且兩人都沒有做雙向確認。
遠端聯想:因為曹操想當王。
Because he thought Cao Cao has feinted。
4.曹嵩為什麼,不能識破這個騙局?
因為他沒有料想到:時間、地點、情境,都是被曹操所設計過的。
因為他不知道真相。不知事情經過。曹操的情況與曹操的叔父所描述的不同。
因為曹操是他兒子,他太愛曹操了、太相信曹操了。因為他信任他兒子,他覺得:曹操所說的事情,都是真的,很信任曹操,不去確認真實性,就被騙了。所以導致:不信任叔父。因為曹操是雙面人,曹嵩不知道事情原委,他只知道曹操中風而已,沒有雙向確認。沒去詢問曹操叔父。
這真是:不聰明啊!但是,深愛著,外人,又能怎麼樣呢?
Because he didn’t see the real thing that happened.
5.職場如果遇到曹操,妳/你,身份類似於曹操的叔父,會怎麼做?
安排雙重確認,先確認第一次,再確認第二次。
如果是上司,就開除他。
也可以:不理他,盡量的遠離他。
如果他掌管一個公司,離開公司;如果他掌管一個國家,離開國家。
如果有法律、有司法系統,就尋找證據、找出證據、拿出證據。為自己澄清。
如果法律不彰,就不去招惹他。
有用的話就:解釋;沒有用就:放棄掙扎。
有用的話就: 跟曹操解釋解釋、或用提醒,暗地裡講清楚;再遠離他;沒有用就:放棄掙扎。
跟自己沒有關係的話,對他放任。不管、視而不見。不管他:怕惹事
想要大幹一場!就:跟他一樣。
I will check the evidence
6.職場如果遇到曹操,妳/你,身份類似於曹嵩,會怎麼做?
另外安排情境,反過來測試曹操。
如果是上司,就開除他。也可以:告訴曹操他哪裡錯。
如果有法律、有司法系統,就:找證據、尋找證據、詢問關於這件事有關人員事情的真相且積極勸說、了解事情、先判斷、問事情經過、了解事情經過、認真一點、不盲目相信別人,要找出真相、著重培養
沒有用就:離職、不理他、不管他、遠離他。
I will prove that I am clean.
7.職場如果遇到曹操,妳/你,身份類似於家族長輩,會怎麼做?
先是:仔細詢問;如果卡住了,就用曹操心愛的利益,來誘使曹操顯露出自己真正的意圖。
若是還有希望、叫他不要這麼做了。先判斷是非。
若是無希望:不理他、不管他、不管。
想要大幹一場!就:叫他當間諜。
I will try to talk sense into them.
8.職場如果遇到曹操,妳/你,身份類似於鄰居,會怎麼做?
如果曹操勢力很小,不關我的事;如果曹操勢力很大,就設計以利益誘之,使曹操露出本來面目,再使曹操的叔父與曹嵩到場,看見真相。告訴曹嵩真相。
若是還有希望: 提醒他、幫叔父講話、呼叫:心靈的救護車。當好人、
若是無希望:開除他、遠離他、袖手旁觀、不理他、盡量避開他、不管他因為怕惹事;待在家裡別跟這種人待再一起。
I will try to check different points of view.
1. Why was Cao Cao's uncle not trusted?
Because he was schemed against by Cao Cao, because Cao Cao lied, because Cao Cao lied to Cao Cao's father, saying that Cao Cao had fainted. Because Cao Cao faked a stroke.
Because it was his uncle and Cao Song who told him Cao Cao had a stroke.
Because Cao Cao faked a stroke in front of his father, but was fine, but his uncle told his father that he had a stroke.
Cao Cao's father felt that Cao Cao's uncle was lying. Cao Cao hadn't fainted at all. Cao Song thought his uncle was lying to him.
Because Cao Cao's father, Cao Song, felt that he was lying. Cao Song felt deceived by Cao Cao's uncle. Cao's father felt cheated.
Because he spread the false news that Cao Cao had suffered a stroke, Cao Song mistakenly believed that Cao Cao's uncle was lying.
Because what he said was different from the actual situation.
The reality was different for Cao Cao's uncle and Cao Song.
Because he has fallen into Cao Cao's trick.
2. Why was Cao Song kept in the dark?
Because Cao Song was nervous and didn't have time to think too much.
Because the scene he saw was deliberately arranged for him by Cao Cao. He didn't know he was being deceived. Because he supported his son.
No one told him the truth.
Cao Cao didn't tell the truth: he was faking it. Cao Song didn't investigate the truth.
Because Cao Cao was two-faced. Because Cao Cao was cunning and resourceful.
Because Cao Song didn't know Cao Cao was faking it, Cao Song didn't know the details, Cao Song didn't carefully verify: Cao Cao's situation differed from Cao Cao's uncle's description, Cao Song didn't see reality, Cao Song didn't understand the overall situation, Cao Song didn't trust his uncle, Cao Song didn't care because he trusted his son, he was deceived by Cao Cao, didn't observe carefully, because he was deceived by Cao Cao, Cao Cao was faking it, because he personally witnessed Cao Cao's stroke.
Because Cao Cao doesn't want to let Cao Song know.
3. Why was there confusion between Cao Cao's uncle and Cao Song?
Remote cause: Because Cao Cao was constantly wandering and neglecting his duties.
Proximal Cause: Because the two saw different things; because Cao Cao feigned fainting; Cao Cao deceived them.
Because Cao Song saw the scene Cao Cao deliberately arranged for him, he mistakenly believed Cao Cao's uncle was untrustworthy. Cao Cao's condition differed from his uncle's description; both saw different things. Because Cao Cao faked a stroke. Cao Song didn't trust Cao Cao's uncle; both were misunderstood by the other. Because Cao Cao faked a stroke, both Cao Song and his uncle were very worried. Because Cao Cao got up when his father arrived.
Key: Cao Cao's uncle and Cao Song were manipulated by Cao Cao, fell into his trap, and were deceived; the situation was urgent; and neither of them confirmed the truth with each other.
Distant Association: Because Cao Cao wanted to become king.
Because he thought Cao Cao had feinted.
4. Why couldn't Cao Song see through this deception? Because he didn't realize that the time, place, and situation were all orchestrated by Cao Cao.
Because he didn't know the truth. He didn't know the details. Cao Cao's situation differed from what Cao Cao's uncle described.
Because Cao Cao was his son, he loved him too much and trusted him too much. Because he trusted his son, he felt that what Cao Cao said was true, and without verifying the truth, he was deceived. Therefore, he didn't trust his uncle. Because Cao Cao was two-faced, Cao Song didn't know the full story; he only knew that Cao Cao had suffered a stroke, without verifying either side's claims. He didn't ask Cao Cao's uncle.
This is truly unwise! But, what can an outsider do when you love someone so deeply?
5. If you encountered Cao Cao in the workplace, and your role was similar to Cao Cao's uncle, what would you do? Arrange for double confirmation: confirm once, then confirm a second time.
If he's your boss, fire him.
Alternatively: ignore him and stay as far away from him as possible. If he runs a company, leave the company; if he runs a country, leave the country.
If there are laws and a judicial system, find evidence, discover evidence, and present evidence. Clear your name.
If the law is ineffective, don't provoke him.
If it works: explain; if it doesn't: give up the struggle.
If it works: explain to Cao Cao, or subtly remind him; then stay away from him; if it doesn't work: give up the struggle.
If it has nothing to do with you, let him be. Ignore him, turn a blind eye. Ignore him: afraid of causing trouble.
Want to make a big splash! Then: be like him.
I will check the Evidence
6. If you encountered Cao Cao in the workplace, and your position was similar to Cao Song's, what would you do?
Create a different scenario to test Cao Cao from the other side.
If you were his superior, fire him. Alternatively, tell Cao Cao where he went wrong.
If there were laws or a judicial system, find evidence, investigate the truth by questioning relevant personnel, actively persuade them, understand the situation, make a judgment, ask about the events, understand the process, be serious, don't blindly trust others, find the truth, and focus on cultivating relationships.
If that doesn't work, resign, ignore him, don't interfere, stay away from him.
I will prove that I am clean.
7. If you encountered Cao Cao in the workplace, and your position was similar to a family elder, what would you do?
First, carefully inquire; if you get stuck, use Cao Cao's cherished interests to induce him to reveal his true intentions.
If there's still hope, tell him not to do it. First, judge right and wrong.
If there's no hope: ignore him, don't interfere, don't interfere.
Want to make a big splash! Ask him to be a spy.
I will I'd really like to talk sense into them.
8. If you encountered Cao Cao in the workplace, and your position was similar to that of a neighbor, what would you do?
If Cao Cao's power is small, it's none of my business; if Cao Cao's power is large, I would devise a plan to lure him with benefits, causing him to reveal his true colors, and then have Cao Cao's uncle and Cao Song present so they could witness the truth. I would then tell Cao Song the truth.
If there is still hope: I would remind him, speak up for his uncle, and call for help. I would act as a good person.
If there is no hope: I would fire him, stay away from him, stand by, ignore him, avoid him as much as possible, and not bother with him for fear of causing trouble; I would stay at home and not associate with such a person anymore.
I will really check different points of view.