🤩 Story 1: Cao Cao Deceives His Uncle and Father
When Cao Cao was young, he loved hunting and dancing; he was cunning and resourceful, and adept at handling life's challenges. Cao Cao's uncle, seeing him constantly wandering and neglecting his duties, became angry and told Cao Song. Cao Song, upon learning this, scolded Cao Cao. Not wanting to be scolded, Cao Cao devised a plan: seeing his uncle approaching from afar, he pretended to faint, acting as if he had suffered a stroke. His uncle, frightened, told Cao Song that Cao Cao had fainted. Cao Song rushed to check on him, only to find Cao Cao was perfectly fine. From then on, his father, Cao Song, only trusted Cao Cao and not his uncle. Because of this, Cao Cao could act recklessly.
1. Why was Cao Cao's uncle not trusted?
2. Why was Cao Song kept in the dark?
3. Why was there confusion between Cao Cao's uncle and Cao Song?
4. Why couldn't Cao Song see through the deception? 5. If you encountered Cao Cao in the workplace, and your position was similar to Cao Cao's uncle, what would you do?
6. If you encountered Cao Cao in the workplace, and your position was similar to Cao Song, what would you do?
7. If you encountered Cao Cao in the workplace, and your position was similar to a family elder, what would you do?
8. If you encountered Cao Cao in the workplace, and your position was similar to a neighbor, what would you do?
1. Why was Cao Cao's uncle not trusted?
Because he was schemed against by Cao Cao, because Cao Cao lied, because Cao Cao lied to Cao Cao's father, saying that Cao Cao had fainted. Because Cao Cao faked a stroke.
Because it was his uncle and Cao Song who told him Cao Cao had a stroke.
Because Cao Cao faked a stroke in front of his father, but was fine, but his uncle told his father that he had a stroke.
Cao Cao's father felt that Cao Cao's uncle was lying. Cao Cao hadn't fainted at all. Cao Song thought his uncle was lying to him.
Because Cao Cao's father, Cao Song, felt that he was lying. Cao Song felt deceived by Cao Cao's uncle. Cao's father felt cheated.
Because he spread the false news that Cao Cao had suffered a stroke, Cao Song mistakenly believed that Cao Cao's uncle was lying.
Because what he said was different from the actual situation.
The reality was different for Cao Cao's uncle and Cao Song.
1. Because he has fallen into Cao Cao's trick.
2. Why was Cao Song kept in the dark?
Because Cao Song was nervous and didn't have time to think too much.
Because the scene he saw was deliberately arranged for him by Cao Cao. He didn't know he was being deceived. Because he supported his son.
No one told him the truth.
Cao Cao didn't tell the truth: he was faking it. Cao Song didn't investigate the truth.
Because Cao Cao was two-faced. Because Cao Cao was cunning and resourceful.
Because Cao Song didn't know Cao Cao was faking it, Cao Song didn't know the details, Cao Song didn't carefully verify: Cao Cao's situation differed from Cao Cao's uncle's description, Cao Song didn't see reality, Cao Song didn't understand the overall situation, Cao Song didn't trust his uncle, Cao Song didn't care because he trusted his son, he was deceived by Cao Cao, didn't observe carefully, because he was deceived by Cao Cao, Cao Cao was faking it, because he personally witnessed Cao Cao's stroke.
Because Cao Cao doesn't want to let Cao Song know.
3. Why was there confusion between Cao Cao's uncle and Cao Song?
Remote cause: Because Cao Cao was constantly wandering and neglecting his duties.
Proximal Cause: Because the two saw different things; because Cao Cao feigned fainting; Cao Cao deceived them.
Because Cao Song saw the scene Cao Cao deliberately arranged for him, he mistakenly believed Cao Cao's uncle was untrustworthy. Cao Cao's condition differed from his uncle's description; both saw different things. Because Cao Cao faked a stroke. Cao Song didn't trust Cao Cao's uncle; both were misunderstood by the other. Because Cao Cao faked a stroke, both Cao Song and his uncle were very worried. Because Cao Cao got up when his father arrived.
Key: Cao Cao's uncle and Cao Song were manipulated by Cao Cao, fell into his trap, and were deceived; the situation was urgent; and neither of them confirmed the truth with each other.
Distant Association: Because Cao Cao wanted to become king.
Because he thought Cao Cao had feinted.
4. Why couldn't Cao Song see through this deception? Because he didn't realize that the time, place, and situation were all orchestrated by Cao Cao.
Because he didn't know the truth. He didn't know the details. Cao Cao's situation differed from what Cao Cao's uncle described.
Because Cao Cao was his son, he loved him too much and trusted him too much. Because he trusted his son, he felt that what Cao Cao said was true, and without verifying the truth, he was deceived. Therefore, he didn't trust his uncle. Because Cao Cao was two-faced, Cao Song didn't know the full story; he only knew that Cao Cao had suffered a stroke, without verifying either side's claims. He didn't ask Cao Cao's uncle.
This is truly unwise! But, what can an outsider do when you love someone so deeply?
5. If you encountered Cao Cao in the workplace, and your role was similar to Cao Cao's uncle, what would you do? Arrange for double confirmation: confirm once, then confirm a second time.
If he's your boss, fire him.
Alternatively: ignore him and stay as far away from him as possible. If he runs a company, leave the company; if he runs a country, leave the country.
If there are laws and a judicial system, find evidence, discover evidence, and present evidence. Clear your name.
If the law is ineffective, don't provoke him.
If it works: explain; if it doesn't: give up the struggle.
If it works: explain to Cao Cao, or subtly remind him; then stay away from him; if it doesn't work: give up the struggle.
If it has nothing to do with you, let him be. Ignore him, turn a blind eye. Ignore him: afraid of causing trouble.
Want to make a big splash! Then: be like him.
I will check the Evidence
6. If you encountered Cao Cao in the workplace, and your position was similar to Cao Song's, what would you do?
Create a different scenario to test Cao Cao from the other side.
If you were his superior, fire him. Alternatively, tell Cao Cao where he went wrong.
If there were laws or a judicial system, find evidence, investigate the truth by questioning relevant personnel, actively persuade them, understand the situation, make a judgment, ask about the events, understand the process, be serious, don't blindly trust others, find the truth, and focus on cultivating relationships.
If that doesn't work, resign, ignore him, don't interfere, stay away from him.
I will prove that I am clean.
7. If you encountered Cao Cao in the workplace, and your position was similar to a family elder, what would you do?
First, carefully inquire; if you get stuck, use Cao Cao's cherished interests to induce him to reveal his true intentions.
If there's still hope, tell him not to do it. First, judge right and wrong.
If there's no hope: ignore him, don't interfere, don't interfere.
Want to make a big splash! Ask him to be a spy.
I will I'd really like to talk sense into them.
8. If you encountered Cao Cao in the workplace, and your position was similar to that of a neighbor, what would you do?
If Cao Cao's power is small, it's none of my business; if Cao Cao's power is large, I would devise a plan to lure him with benefits, causing him to reveal his true colors, and then have Cao Cao's uncle and Cao Song present so they could witness the truth. I would then tell Cao Song the truth.
If there is still hope: I would remind him, speak up for his uncle, and call for help. I would act as a good person.
If there is no hope: I would fire him, stay away from him, stand by, ignore him, avoid him as much as possible, and not bother with him for fear of causing trouble; I would stay at home and not associate with such a person anymore.
I will really check different points of view.